On Relationships
Writing on patterns, relationships, and how change happens.
Why You Leave Yourself in Relationships (Without Realising It)
You don’t consciously choose to leave yourself - it happens quickly, often without noticing.
This piece explores how this pattern forms, and what makes something different possible.
Why Setting Boundaries Feels So Difficult
Knowing what you need doesn’t always make it easier to say.
This piece explores why boundaries can feel difficult in the moment - and what supports staying with yourself.
Why You Keep Repeating the Same Relationship Patterns
You may recognise your patterns clearly, yet find them returning in different relationships.
This piece explores why patterns persist - and what allows them to change.
Why Insight Alone Doesn’t Create Change in Therapy
Many people understand their patterns, yet find themselves repeating them.
This piece explores why insight alone doesn’t lead to change - and what actually begins to shift things.